Most commonly, when one person in a relationship comes to the other with a problem (or even just wanting to vent), the instinct of the other person is to spring into action – offering their advice or encouraging words in an effort to aid them in feeling better. But what if I told you that by doing so, you could actually be making things worse!
Despite your good intentions, trying to bypass their feelings to get to a solution can actually cause more harm than good.
One of the most powerful aspects of a strong relationship is feeling that you are heard and known by the person you are with. In order for this connection to be made, the most effective way to respond to your significant other in times of distress is with empathy.
Brene Brown does an excellent job of explaining the importance of empathy, and what an empathic response looks like, in this video:
The next time your partner comes to you with a problem, a rough day, or the need to vent, try showing them empathy before...
There’s nothing like escaping the realities of everyday life with the one you love. But sometimes a full-blown vacation just isn’t in the cards. Whether the budget is a bit tight these days, you’re short on vacation time from work, or you’re just looking for a change of pace in your typical routine, here are 4 fun staycation ideas that you and your spouse can enjoy together:
If you want to enjoy the great outdoors, look no further than your own backyard! Pitch a tent, grab some flashlights, and build a fire in the firepit (or use the grill) to cook hotdogs and make s’mores! Enjoy an evening of looking up at the stars and telling ghost stories, all with the comforts of home just steps away.
Take a trip to Redbox, scope out the $5 movie bins at Walmart, or browse your own shelves to find a line-up of movies that you’d like to watch together (make it fun and let each person pick their...
Valentine’s Day is the great day for lovers across the globe to celebrate love. Many wish to celebrate the day in a special way. Having the best valentine’s occasion is everyone’s dream. It is for this precise rationale that individuals seek for ways to transform the day into a magical experience. Specifically, for those with loved ones who seeks for innovative and special ways to celebrate their love. Those with love dates have greater drive to show their lovers the true meaning of love. Fortunately, there are countless ways you can achieve and have quality valentine to remember for years. Mistakenly, people think that having lots of currency equates to a fantastic valentines.
On the contrary, you can have a great lover’s day on a limited budget. However, this does not exclude the importance of money in facilitating, but it is not everything. There are several tips which when followed well will guarantee a memorable day to cherish....
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